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🌟 Breaking the Cycle: The Urgent Need for More Support in Men's Domestic Violence Programs 🌟 As a confidence coach, I've witnessed the powerful transformation that can occur when men who have experienced domestic violence receive the support they need. It’s not just a change for one person—it’s a positive ripple effect across families and communities. 🔗 A recent article highlights a critical issue: hundreds of Australian men are stuck on waiting lists for behavior change programs, despite their proven effectiveness in curbing cycles of domestic violence. These programs are essential as they address deep-seated behavioral issues and teach skills for healthier, safer relationships. 🤔 Imagine seeking help to change and being told you must wait—sometimes indefinitely. This waiting period can be perilous for both the individuals and their loved ones. From personal encounters, I know of men who felt helpless and stuck, their resolve weakening as they awaited entry into these transformative programs. This is not just a funding issue; it's a societal call to action to prioritize and expand these life-changing programs. 💬 Have you or someone you know experienced delays in getting necessary support? What impact did it have? 📊 Data shows that timely intervention can significantly reduce repeat offenses and provide men the tools to build better futures. It’s crucial for us to push for increased funding and accessibility to these programs. 🙌 Let’s open up this conversation. Share your thoughts and experiences below. By bringing awareness, we can advocate for change and provide men the support they urgently need to become better versions of themselves. #DomesticViolenceAwareness #ChangeMakers #BehaviorChange #SupportNotStigma #CommunitySafety #MenEmpowerment Together, we can help break the cycle of domestic violence. 🔄✨

The Domestic Violence Death Review Team's Annual Report for 2021-2023, released today, presents a detailed analysis of domestic violence homicides in NSW over the past two decades. The report reveals that nearly one-third of all homicides in NSW occurred within the context of domestic violence, with a significant overrepresentation of women and children as victims. Key findings include the heightened risk of lethal violence during periods of separation and the prevalence of stalking behaviours post-separation. The report also highlights the complex interplay between domestic violence, mental health, and substance abuse issues, emphasising the need for integrated responses. Additionally, it underscores the socio-economic challenges faced by victims in regional and remote communities. This extensive analysis provides critical insights for policymakers, service providers, and advocates to better prevent, respond to, and support recovery from domestic violence. By addressing these findings, we can foster a more informed and effective approach to tackling domestic violence, ultimately aiming to save lives and support those affected in their journey towards healing. https://lnkd.in/gcEnh_27 #domesticviolence #domesticfamilyviolence #notodomesticviolence

Domestic Violence is everyones problems. Open honest conversations are important. What factors do you consider contribute to Domestic violence? Join the conversation.

Join Empowerment Nexus Alliance in the Fight Against Gender-Based Violence The 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence is a global call to action, and at ENA, we’re taking a stand to amplify voices, break barriers, and inspire change. This year, we’re shining a light on men as victims of GBV an often overlooked but vital part of the conversation. Gender-based violence affects everyone, and addressing it requires a united effort: - Mental health support is critical for healing and recovery. - Creating safe spaces for victims to speak out is essential. Together, we can build violence-free communities that prioritize dignity and equality for all. Empowerment Nexus Alliance is proud to join the global community in observing the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence. This period reminds us all to stand together in raising awareness and taking action against all forms of violence. Let’s use these 16 days to reflect, engage, and commit to change. Together, we can create safe spaces for everyone and end GBV in our communities. Watch, share, and take part in this movement for a better tomorrow. #16DaysOfActivism #EndGBV #BreakTheSilence #GenderEquality #EmpowermentNexusAlliance

#DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth October is domestic violence awareness month. According to the CDC’s recent survey, more than 16 million people in the US suffer from intimate partner abuse per year. 85% of victims of intimate partner violence are women. In 2019, nearly 4 women per day were killed by an intimate partner in the US. Domestic violence is not limited to any race, religion, profession or socioeconomic group. Anyone can be impacted either as survivor themselves or as the friend, co-worker or family member. As a community we can help support domestic violence survivors, especially in the workplace.  If you notice staff, colleagues or co-workers who come to work with visible injuries that they blame on “being clumsy,” or if they are frequently late, absent or leaving early when they are generally dependable, take notice as these could be signs of someone surviving domestic violence. Survivors can also show signs of depression or anxiety at work or may receive harassing phone calls, text messages or emails that distract them from work. Domestic Violence programs throughout the state of Kansas can offer help to those experiencing intimate partner violence. A directory of Kansas programs can be found at https://lnkd.in/g8W36tKm. Help is also available 24/7 at the Kansas Crisis Hotline 1-888-363-2287 or text SAFE to 847411. Most importantly, let survivors know that you are a safe person to talk to and that the violence is not their fault.

Te Aorerekura, the National Strategy to Eliminate Family Violence and Sexual Violence, outlines six key system shifts.    Each of the shifts are interconnected, and acknowledge the range of issues that either drive, or protect against, these forms of violence.    The third shift is towards skilled, culturally competent and sustainable workforces.   Different communities need different kinds of support to eliminate family violence and sexual violence.   In order to provide the right help to different people, we need: - Skilled family violence or sexual violence specialists with skills and cultural competence in providing responses that meet the needs of different people, in healing or preventing violence. - Workers in government and community generalist services who can identify if someone needs help, take action safely, and connect to specialist services if needed. - People in informal networks including workplaces, marae, faith organisations, sports groups, friends, family and whānau who can respond, heal and prevent.   Check out the Te Puna Aonui Aonui website for more information on these shifts.

As an expert working closely with women and men around the world, I want to take a moment to address a critical issue: domestic violence. This month, we shine a light on a pervasive problem that affects countless lives, transcending borders, cultures, and communities. Domestic violence is not just a women’s issue; it’s a human issue that demands our collective attention and action. Men have a crucial role to play in ending this cycle of violence. It’s essential that we challenge the societal norms and attitudes that allow domestic violence to persist. Here are some key points to consider: Empowerment through Education: Educating ourselves and those around us about the signs of domestic violence can create a ripple effect. Understanding what constitutes abusive behavior enables us to recognize it and support those affected. Be a Voice for Change: As men, we must speak out against violence in all its forms. Silence only perpetuates the issue. Let’s use our voices to advocate for those who may feel voiceless and to promote healthy, respectful relationships. Support Survivors: It’s vital that we listen to and support survivors of domestic violence. Whether through direct assistance or by fostering a safe environment, our compassion can help in their healing journey. Model Healthy Behavior: We must set an example by modeling respectful relationships and healthy communication. Our actions can influence others and help shape future generations’ views on love, respect, and partnership. This October, let’s commit ourselves to being part of the solution. Together, we can create a world where violence is not tolerated and everyone can live in safety and dignity. Remember, ending domestic violence starts with us—let’s take action, speak up, and stand together. #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth CPTSD Foundation The Jed Foundation (JED)American Addiction Centers WellMed Medical Management Optum Dr. Omar Reda Milena S. Caron Treatment Centers #EndDomesticViolence #SupportSurvivors #HealthyRelationships #SpeakUp

💬 It’s Time to Break the Silence on Domestic Violence Domestic violence is a devastating reality for too many within the Defence and veteran community—yet it’s often shrouded in silence. This #16DaysOfActivism2024, we embrace the theme #NoExcuse to confront this issue head-on. Silence only gives violence more power. It’s time to speak up, act, and support change. 💔 A Personal Perspective As someone who has experienced intimate partner and family violence, I know the profound importance of: ◾ Unlearning harmful behaviours, especially in high-stress environments. ◾ Identifying what support works and what doesn’t. ◾ Normalizing conversations to create real, meaningful solutions. 💡 Men Must Be Part of the Solution We cannot achieve lasting change without involving men. Gender-based violence impacts everyone, including men who’ve experienced violence themselves. By challenging stereotypes and fostering shared responsibility, we can build communities where everyone feels safe. Supporting men who want to change is essential. By questioning ingrained notions about gender and masculinity and taking a no ‘blame and shame’ approach, we can create safe, respectful, and accountable spaces. Masculinity is not toxic—but harmful stereotypes are. We must engage young men in meaningful conversations that lead to change. 💜 Together, We Can Make a Difference This isn’t just a conversation; it’s a call to action. Breaking the cycle of violence starts with breaking the silence. Let’s create safe spaces for dialogue, support, and accountability. 📞 Help Is Available ◾ 1800RESPECT Australia: 1800 737 732 (National domestic, family, and sexual violence support) ◾ MENSLINE AUSTRALIA: 1300 78 99 78 (Support for men) ◾ Open Arms - Veterans & Families Counselling: 1800 011 046 No one should feel alone. Together, we can build a future free from domestic violence. There’s #NoExcuse for violence. Let’s break the cycle. #16DaysOfActivism #EndViolenceAgainstWomen #EndGBV #BreakTheCycle #StopGBV #InvestToPrevent #UniteAgainstDomesticViolence #ProtectWomenAndGirls #EndGenderViolence #EndViolenceAgainstWomen #UniteToEndGBV #BreakTheCycle #SafeEverywhereAlways #EndGenderViolenceEverywhere

🛑International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women🛑 Today is International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women.   On this day, we stand together to raise our voices against the violence that women and girls face every day. Violence in any form—physical, emotional, or psychological—is never acceptable. According to the United Nations, every 10 minutes, a woman is killed. Globally, almost one in three women have been subjected to physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence, non-partner sexual violence, or both, at least once in their life.   As we are approaching the holiday season, it is important to be mindful that it can be a difficult time for people who do not feel safe at home. Unfortunately, many women and children do not experience a joyful holiday season as they are subject to fear and intimidation. Statistics show that incidents of Domestic and Family Violence are likely to increase during the holiday season with safe spaces such as schools or work being closed. This is a reminder to check on family, friends, and neighbours over the holiday period and regularly.   Women should feel safe in their workplaces, homes, and communities. Let’s commit to supporting survivors, challenging harmful behaviours, and working towards lasting change. Every voice, every action, makes a difference. If you or someone you know is experiencing Domestic and Family Violence, there are support services who can help. 1800 RESPECT: The national sexual assault, domestic and family violence counselling service. 24/7 phone and online services. Australia: 1800 737 732 1800 RESPECT   LifeLine Australia: 24/7 crisis support. Australia: 13 11 14 Lifeline Australia

Understanding Why ? Domestic Violence. Join the conversation. Approaching Domestic Violence with a curiosity will help create better outcomes. Changing focus from victims, victimhood and victimisation to the perpetrator, in an effort to understand why, will help reduce and prevent domestic, family and intimate violence in the community. Research suggests witnessing or experiencing childhood violence is a contributing factor to negative abusive behaviours as adults. Alcohol, drugs, gambling and porn also can be attributed to creating environments more likely to have domestic violence. Workplace stress and pressures, lack of ability to deal with abuse and diverting violence as a coping mechanism also can attribute to domestic violence. The 'State of knowledge report on violence perpetrators', link in article, suggests current strategies neglect larger level factors such as community, social, workplaces and institutions in addressing and reducing domestic violence. Lets move away from social-ecological models which focus on individuals, and relationship factors and start addressing the real problem? https://lnkd.in/g_nJEkNW.