What are some of the ways to spend one's 15-year wedding anniversary? When you're a parent, it's anyone's guess how the day may turn out. We "celebrated" in pediatrics ER with a sick kid, trying to get answers on what her symptoms may have been manifesting.
Sitting in a waiting room, I felt...good. That we were there as a unit, both comforting our feverish kiddo; both asking the doctor questions about the test and the medication options should it come back positive. I felt good about having a life partner who is a very present father (as I know that this is not necessarily what our society historically expected of men).
According to recent study, millennial dads spend twice as much time with their children compared to their own fathers, they prioritize paternity leave, and 57% consider parenthood an important part of their identity. The Female Quotient cited that Finnish dads have taken double the parental leave since 2022 (!) when a new benefit was introduced in the county, giving each parent an equal amount of paid leave with an option to transfer 62 days to another parent.
Last week I attended a The Conference Board event focused on employee well being. One of the conversations lead by Allison Whalen of Parentaly was particularly interesting to me as it showcased how their program was implemented in various organizations and how it prepared both primary and secondary parents for upcoming birth and/or adoption leaves. I squeezed in a question about men's participation rates, and it turns out over 40% of program's active users are men! And their clients report that implementing comprehensive parental leave policies results in more men taking the leave.
Supporting working parents is not mainly or just about supporting a birthing parent. It is about supporting a family unit as a whole, allowing both parents flexibility and opportunity to actively engage in their children's lives. Clearly many dads want to be there for all of those milestones and more of them should be able to when there is a strong employer support.
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