Returning to work after maternity leave, I found myself at a crossroads where envy could have overshadowed my joy—here's how I chose a different path. When I returned to work post-maternity leave, the landscape had shifted. Colleagues had advanced, projects had evolved, and there I was, feeling like I was playing catch-up. It was a garden ripe for envy to flourish. But instead of letting it steer me towards unnecessary acquisitions or a relentless chase after 'improvements', I paused. I realized that this urge wasn't a call to arms; it was a sign to refocus. It was in the quiet moments, with my art and the simple, yet profound act of doing my work – my karma – that clarity dawned. In my professional sphere, by focusing on my duties and responsibilities, the noise quieted down. My path wasn't about battling others; it was about enriching the ground I stood on. This shift in perspective brought an unexpected serenity. I started to celebrate my colleagues' successes without feeling like it detracted from my own journey. My art and my work became my twin anchors, steadying me against the current of comparison. Through this lens, the urge to compete transformed into an inspiration to contribute. And contribution, not comparison, is the fertile ground from which true success grows. It is not measured in promotions or accolades but in the value we create, the joy we find in our work, and the balance we maintain in our lives. So, if envy ever clouds your horizon, remember it's a signal, not a sentence. A signal to realign with your purpose, to cherish your present, and to engage with your passions. It's there to remind you that your path to success is uniquely yours. Don't let the pressure of capitalism dictate your happiness. Know when to improve, when to let go, and when to simply be. After all, the joy of the present is the only truth we live in. How do you manage the feeling of envy or insufficiency, let me know in comments! #envy #worklifebalance #contemplation #careerguidance #womeninstem #motherhood
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9moWith passing time I have realized we all are on our own individual journey .. battling our own circumstances, walking our own timeline with our unique capabilities. On the trigger of Envious emotion I keep telling myself I can only become better than I was yesterday and can always get getting inspired from others.