Jayme Lauri’s Post

Silver Linings I want to share an honest reflection on my journey over the past six months. The current job market has been incredibly tough, and I’ve felt the strain of unemployment. Despite sending out hundreds of applications and landing only a few interviews, maintaining confidence has been challenging. For someone who’s been employed most of their life, this is unfamiliar territory. If you’re in a similar situation, know that you’re not alone—I’m here for you. Throughout my career, I’ve always prioritized visibility, which to me meant “getting things done.” Often, this came at the expense of personal time—missing my kids' soccer games, skipping happy hours with friends, and working during family trips. However, these past six months have offered an unexpected silver lining. It has allowed me to take inventory of my life and grow closer to my family. I've been able to spend more time with my son, helping him navigate career choices and understand the impact he can have in his job. I take my daughter to her cheer practices—45 minutes each way, we hang out and sing songs together. You should hear her sing Adele; it will blow your mind. I also get to spend time with my beautiful wife, who is on a fitness journey. After a year and a half of training, she competed in a competition this week and was amazing. I must also mention my incredible network. So many former colleagues check in on me or send job postings. They ask how I’m doing or offer to refer me for roles. You are a major reason I keep going. The power of kindness is incredible—just message someone after they’ve been turned down for a role they wanted or needed with a simple “Hope you are doing okay, buddy. I was thinking about you today and just wanted to say thank you for all of our talks and your encouragement over the years.” To anyone else navigating this difficult job market, stay strong. Let’s support each other and cherish the silver linings we find along the way. #JobSearch #UnemploymentJourney #SilverLinings #FamilyTime #SupportNetwork #CareerGrowth #StayStrong

My client came to me deeply unhappy At an all time low Looking at her CV, there was no doubt she was amazingly smart and talented On paper, she could easily find a new job But her reality felt very different, she was at rock bottom After years focusing on her career and working in a toxic environment, her confidence was crushed She didn't just want a new job She wanted ✨ To feel good again ✨ To feel confident ✨ To enjoy life She wanted to join a company where she could continue to do great work and feel good about herself I told her to ❌ Stop going on LinkedIn ❌ Stop looking at other people's profiles ❌ Stop applying for jobs Instead, we spent the first month focusing on her 👉 What hidden talents and passions had she buried? 👉 What truly ignited her spark of happiness? 👉 What core values drove her in life and work? It was an amazing month of self exploration, allowing her to reconnect with herself again Slowly she rebuilt her confidence She remembered who she was and she was very clear on what she wanted in her next role Only at that point did we start working on the practicalities of finding a new job Armed with 🎯 A crystal-clear direction 💪 A laser-focused personal brand ✨ Confidence radiating from within She landed her dream job I'm beyond proud of the work she did and honoured I could help her through it all. It's easy to think a new job will fix everything But sometimes you have to slow down And take the time to reflect and rediscover your true north Only then can you leap towards your dreams with confidence and a smile! #careerdevelopment #careerchange #confidence

🚨 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗧𝗶𝗽 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝘆: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝘁𝗼 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗥𝗲𝗷𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 (Unless You Like Burning Bridges) 🚨 I’ve seen some 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 post-rejection responses lately, and they’re a great reminder of what not to do. Here are two recent gems: “Thanks for letting me know, but you’ve definitely made the wrong decision. Good luck without me! (LOL).” "No one knows this type of role more than I do so it's your loss." 💡 Pro tip: That’s definitely not how you leave a good impression. Here’s the reality: 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗔𝗰𝗾𝘂𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗺𝘆! We’re not sitting here plotting to ruin your day. We’re simply trying to find the best fit for the role, and that means making tough decisions. But how you respond? That’s where you get to shine—or crash and burn. Here’s why keeping it professional is always a good idea: 🧚♂️ 𝗪𝗲’𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗿𝗲𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗿𝘆 𝗴𝗼𝗱𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀: Just because this role didn’t work out doesn’t mean we won’t have something perfect for you next time. But if your response includes “good luck without me” or a “no one knows this role better than me” attitude, it might not help your case. 🧠 𝗪𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Sarcasm? Overconfidence? You might think it’s forgotten, but it’s not. Send a thoughtful, professional reply, and you’ll be on our radar for future opportunities. 🌍 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗹𝗹: Professional circles are tighter than you think. You don’t want to be remembered for the “I’m better than your decision” response. A little grace goes a long way! Fellow recruiters, what are some of the most memorable post-rejection responses you’ve received? Drop your stories below! 👇 For everyone else, next time you get rejected, play it cool 😎 and keep the door open 🚪. You never know when that dream role (and a friendly recruiter email) might come knocking! 📩 #CareerAdvice #WhatNotToDo #LOLButNotReally #TalentAcquisitionIsYourFriend #KeepItClassy

Resilience in the Job Hunt: A December Perspective This year, I’m on the other side of the job hunt—applying for roles rather than reviewing CVs. Usually, I’m the one searching for those golden nuggets that stand out, hoping to find someone who will become an incredible addition to the team. Being an applicant has given me a fresh perspective on the time, effort, and resilience it takes to put yourself out there.December adds its own challenges. The holidays are approaching, projects are being wrapped up, and it can feel like the world is winding down—but opportunities are still out there. Here's what I’ve learned from being both a hiring professional and now an applicant: 💡 Quality over quantity. A well-tailored application that shows you’ve done your research stands out more than sending off dozens of CVs. 💡 Your unique story matters. Let your enthusiasm and individuality shine through—it’s what makes people remember you. 💡 Don’t let December discourage you. There are hiring teams still working hard to find their next great candidate. To everyone navigating the job hunt right now: you’re doing amazing. Keep pushing forward. The right role is out there, and it’s worth the effort.Let’s support one another during this time. If you need a fresh perspective, advice, or just some encouragement, feel free to reach out. #JobHunting #Resilience #CareerJourney #DecemberChallenges

Lately, a big chunk of my day is spent answering this one question: "So, how are you doing? How’s the job search going?" Honestly? It’s tough. The job application process can be overwhelming, and sometimes it feels like a never-ending cycle of resumes, cover letters, and waiting. The constant follow-ups, rejections, and uncertainty can take a toll. It’s hard not to feel discouraged when things don’t go as planned, especially when you’re putting in the effort day after day. Job searching is like navigating through uncharted waters—sometimes it’s smooth sailing, but more often, it’s full of challenges and rough seas. You question yourself, your worth, and your path. But through this, I'm learning that persistence is key. It’s about showing up for yourself, even when it feels like no one else sees the effort you’re putting in. But here’s the reality—this journey isn’t easy, and that’s okay. It’s a test of patience, resilience, and perseverance. Each application, whether successful or not, is a step forward. Every rejection is just another push toward the right opportunity. Every pause is a moment to regroup and recalibrate. I’m learning to take it one day at a time, focusing on what I can control and trusting that the right fit is out there. It’s not about giving up; it’s about showing up—again and again. And to everyone who has asked how I’m doing: thank you for caring. Your support means more than you know. This process can feel lonely at times, but having a network that checks in really does make a difference. To all my fellow job seekers out there: I see you. We’re all in this together, facing the ups and downs of the search. Let’s keep lifting each other up, staying focused, and moving forward. We’ve got this. 💪 #JobSearch #KeepPushing #Resilience #CareerJourney #StayStrong #SupportMatters

I am absolutely thrilled to share that after 5 intense months of job searching, I’ve just signed an offer and will be starting a new role on September 30th! 🎉 I’m excited to reveal where I’m landing soon, but for now, I want to take a moment to reflect on this journey and express my gratitude. Here are a few lessons I’ve learned along the way: 1. Market Realities: The job market today is a different landscape from what I experienced previously. It’s been an emotional roller coaster, and navigating it has been challenging but incredibly insightful. 2. Preparation is Key: Before diving into your job search, I highly recommend reading Phyl Terry's *Never Search Alone* (link in comments). A huge thank you to Shiloh for introducing me to this invaluable resource! And a special thank you to my Job Search Council #1737. 3. Networking Matters: Leverage your network for introductions and connections. A big shoutout to Adam Young & Hiral Dutia for introducing me to Derek Hui. Derek's amazing support and introductions played a pivotal role in landing this offer. 4. Stay Positive: A positive mindset is crucial. One of the toughest rejections I faced was being a very close second. It was during those moments of disappointment that I leaned on my job search council and friends for support. Remember: “What is meant for you will find you!” And, as I’ve learned, often in the right time. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Signing an offer on a Tuesday (which is good luck in Jewish traditions - see comment for reasoning) that happens to also coincide with the 9th anniversary of my mom losing her battle with cancer feels like divine timing!!! Thank you to everyone who has supported me through this journey. Your encouragement and practical help have made all the difference. Stay tuned for more updates on my new adventure! #JobSearch #CareerJourney #Networking #Gratitude

A question that comes up often when being interviewed 👇 “𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨-𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮?” My answer is simple. It’s honest. I don’t hold back and I don’t worry about how it will be received on the other end. Truthfully, my vision has been the same since I was a little girl. However, somewhere during my college days I was advised to stick to more of a corporate answer. As I near the end of my 20s, it is no secret. My answer is this: 𝘔𝘺 𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢 𝘸𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳. 𝘛𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘦𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘵. 𝘈 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘦 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦, 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬-𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘭𝘦𝘹𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺. 𝘐 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺, 𝘤𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦. 𝘏𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘢 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺. That’s it. The right company will respect that answer. The wrong company wants to hear more about climbing a corporate ladder and how much money I aspire to make. Don’t cheat yourself during your job search. Just be real. Be honest. The right people will gravitate to you and the wrong ones will overlook you or ghost you…. Stay true to YOURSELF! 𝙒𝙚 𝙆𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙄𝙩 𝙍𝙚𝙖𝙡 𝙒𝙚𝙙𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙙𝙖𝙮…. Has a nice ring to it 😏 #jobsearch #transparency #honesty

Happy Friday, everyone! 🎉 As we wrap up another week, let’s take a moment to celebrate our progress and recharge for what’s ahead. Here are some friendly tips to help you tie up your job search efforts and set yourself up for success next week: ➡ Celebrate Your Wins: Think back on the small victories this week—whether it was sending out applications, connecting with someone new, or even landing an interview. Every step counts, so give yourself a little pat on the back! 👏 ➡ Reflect and Revise: Take a moment to consider what worked well and what didn’t. Maybe it’s time to tweak your resume or spruce up your LinkedIn profile. Whatever it is, small adjustments can make a big difference! ➡ Connect and Follow Up: If you made any new connections this week, don’t forget to reach out! ✉ A quick thank-you note or follow-up message can help strengthen those relationships and keep the momentum going. ➡ Plan Ahead: Set some clear, achievable goals for next week. Whether it’s applying for a specific number of jobs, attending a networking event, or prepping for an interview, having a plan will help keep you focused and motivated. ➡ Take Time for You: Job searching can be tough, so make sure to carve out some time this weekend to relax and recharge. Do something you love—it’ll help you come back next week with fresh energy and a positive mindset! ➡ Stay Positive and Keep Going: Remember, job searching is a journey, not a race. Keep your spirits high and stay persistent. Your hard work will pay off!💯 Enjoy your weekend! #CISearchGroup #JobSearch #CareerAdvice #FridayMotivation #CareerGoals #StayPositive

Her name was Laura. She was crying in her car on the way home. We figured out what she wanted. And what made her special. Most of us have something that helps us stand out in our field — a personality trait, and a special gift, a strength that is rare in our profession. And sometimes it is unique experiences — maybe because of a family member’s profession, a passion or interest. Once we figured out Laura’s superpowers, we were able to help her find job love in ALL the right places! We also highlighted them on her updated LinkedIn profile. Those superpowers landed her her dream job. And helped her retire her husband. Superpowers aren’t magical. But they are powerful — getting clear on what makes you special helps you highlight that when applying for jobs and interviewing. And that helps the companies who NEED your superpowers to say, “Yes, we found her!” And that is where you find job love. Would you like to find job love in all the right places? Do you want to land your dream job with your superpowers, like Laura? Come get some Wendy Weekly Wisdom this week. Wendy will help you get started on the two crucial first steps that will enable you to figure out what your super powers are — and who wants them! Join me today HERE tomorrow at 5pm ET. Let me know if you'll be joining me #LIVE or need the #REPLAY! If you are a job seeker: this is NOT a candidate-friendly job market. It is UGLY people! When people say they want to DIY their job search — I follow up next month to see how it’s going, 9/10 times they’ve applied to less than 5 jobs and nothing to show for it. This is NOT how to get a job in this market. #careers #jobinterviews #jobsearch #jobs #hiringandpromotion

My client was able to land his dream role in the month of August! Can you imagine? Yes, in the summer months where we think everyone is off and no one is hiring yet. This goes to say that you should not put everything on hold to start in September or you will be passing by exciting opportunities. She was struggling with getting noticed and called back for job opportunities. She hadn’t searched for a job for 10 years as she had been happy in her company. So she assumed it would be the same approach as 10 years ago. Having a good resume showcasing her achievements and reaching out to her network. But she struggled for almost 6 months and the frustration kept building up. She almost gave up, resigning herself to stay in her current role instead. She came to me as a last resort before quitting and we got her to work on a completely new approach: > Having a “good” resume is NOT “good enough” these days. Competition is fierce. The way to do it is to personalize it for every role. > Reaching out to your contact list can get you so far. Many are getting inundated with messages so it’s normal if you get ghosted. Don’t take it personally but the approach needs to change for you to get responses back. > Are you really putting yourself out there in the right way? Being visible is key but don’t fall into the wrong type of visibility. After we got her to work on a personal program responding to her exact goals and challenges, she was able turn around her situation and landed her exciting job after 3 months of applying the right strategies. Don’t wait till September knocks on your door, if you are looking for a new job change before the end of the year, then start now. And if you feel like these are the types of opportunities you are leaving on the table at the moment, I’d love to share some things you can do right away, things I’ve only shared with my clients. DM me, I’ll be happy to share them with you and even help you create a plan! #JobSatisfaction #CareerChange #CareerCoach #PositiveMindset #ExecutiveCoach #SuccessMindset