Hyang Mi Stegers’ Post

You can't hard drive yourself to where your soul wants to go. When you were climbing the ladder, you figured out what was required and used your ambition and drive to get yourself there. But going hard like that doesn't work so well anymore. And you don't really have the energy for that anyway. You find yourself thinking there has to be a better way. As you approach the end of your career phase, you might feel a lot of pressure to have everything figured out. Here’s the reality: figuring out what’s next is not straightforward, and it's definitely not just you who’s struggling with this. The notion that you can seamlessly decide on the next big step is a myth reinforced by society’s narrative that clarity should come naturally once you reach this life stage. The truth is much messier in this more fluid, undefined phase of life. Most of us aren't taught how to find our way in life, especially in a manner that breaks from traditional norms and aligns with your deepest sense of personal fulfillment and purpose. Feeling stuck or uncertain is part of the process, not a personal flaw. 🎯Letting go of the pressure to have all the answers right away is the single most important thing you can do to navigate this transition more freely and creatively.

Embrace the Unknown and Transform Your Life Have you ever felt stuck in your routine, clinging to the same old comforts, even though you know they’re holding you back? You’re not alone. So many of us are used to living in our little bubbles, relying on creature comforts that keep us safe but stagnant. But here's the truth: Real growth happens when you step into the unknown. It’s in those moments of discomfort where you truly evolve and make progress. That’s where my Resilience Program comes in. I’m here to help you break free from the chains of your comfort zone. Together, we’ll dive into new challenges, pushing your boundaries in a way that’s structured and controlled. You’ll learn to embrace change, building resilience and strength along the way. Imagine transforming into a version of yourself that thrives on challenges, adapts effortlessly to change, and stands tall in the face of adversity. That’s the power of stepping into the unknown. Ready to take the leap? Ready to become the best version of yourself? Drop me a message to find out how we can make it happen together. Terry Roffey Paul Whitnell Lauren Rimmer

Embrace Your Journey: The Silent Strength Within No one truly knows the weight you carry, and that’s okay. Your family may never fully understand the daily challenges, pressures, and decisions you face in your career. Your job won’t always know the personal circumstances or responsibilities that you juggle at home. Even your closest friends and loved ones may not grasp the depth of your old and new responsibilities. And your partner, no matter how much you share, might not completely understand the mental and emotional load you bear. But this isn’t about seeking validation from others. This is about embracing your journey. You are the only one who knows the road you’ve traveled and the strength it’s taken to get here. So, respect your journey. Build your willpower, mental toughness, and take care of your health—both physical and emotional—to overcome life’s challenges. In the midst of it all, remember to cherish yourself. Your resilience, your ability to move forward, and your quiet perseverance are your greatest assets. While the world may not always understand, you owe it to yourself to keep pushing, evolving, and rising above. Stay strong, stay focused, and remember—growth is a deeply personal journey. 🌱

When you carry your own water i.e, invest yourself in something with personal responsibility, you will learn the value of every drop i.e, you will become aware of its worth. Investment in the self, in taking charge of every aspect of life, in appreciating the value of hard work and every resource is what personal responsibility is all about. When I pour energy, time, and hardwork into something, only then can I be aware of its significance. Personal responsibility is the source from which dignity and self-worth arise. It is when blame-game stops. It is what helps design life, living, ambitions and goals. It is the power that drives the engines of a great mindset setting course in the direction of growth, in fostering autonomy, in letting out of comfort zones, in dealing with challenges, and learning from both successes and failures. #personalresponsibility #productivity #workattitude #mindset #personalgrowth

It’s easy to fall into the cycle of self-rejection, allowing doubts and fears to hold us back from pursuing our dreams. Yet, we must remind ourselves that dismissing our own potential closes the door to countless opportunities. Often, we tend to evaluate ourselves against others and their achievements, forgetting that each of us is on a unique path. After all, can we judge a bird by its ability to swim? Of course not. Instead, we should cultivate resilience and self-belief one that embraces challenges as opportunities for growth. Life is a dynamic journey, full of challenges as well as possibilities that often lie just beyond the boundaries of our comfort zone. By remaining open to these opportunities and trusting in our ability to overcome obstacles, we can turn setbacks into pathways forward. Ultimately, it’s not our limitations but our determination to keep striving that shapes our success. So, the key is to believe in our unique abilities and stay committed to pursuing a life of purpose and fulfillment. Here's to staying resilient and never giving up! ✌

I usually don't post on LinkedIn, but this one is special and is dedicated to my friend for being a true fighter yet humble.   I returned from a work trip from the US this weekend and met a few from my university and work for the first time, even though we had been connected on LinkedIn for years. This is about a friend's experiences and how it taught me a few life lessons. My friend endured unimaginable hardships. It's hard to explain. Yet, she emerged stronger, using it as fuel to propel her forward. Her resilience taught me that overcoming life-changing events isn’t about avoiding them—it’s about navigating them with grace and determination.     During my conversation, I learned 3 things about life...  🚀 Perseverance: Her Unyielding Spirit  Her journey exemplifies perseverance. At an early age, she worked multiple jobs. She didn’t give up when faced many difficult situations in life. Instead, she persisted. Her spirit taught me that perseverance isn’t just about endurance—it’s about commitment to your goals. Her attitude to say, “No matter what happens, I’ll find a way through this" has fuelled her resilience and growth.   🎯 Focus: Navigating the Storm  Her move to a new country was daunting. She faced isolation, cultural differences, and a demanding work environment. Yet, she focused on learning and earned her master's degree (super proud of her). In the chaos of life-changing events, focus becomes your compass. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by what’s beyond your control, shift your attention to what you can influence.   🔥 Relentlessness: The Fire Within  My friend’s relentless pursuit of excellence inspires me. When setbacks come, adapt, adjust, and keep moving. The fire within you burns brighter when you refuse to give up. Let it fuel your dreams, your goals, and your impact on the people around you.   🌟 Conclusion: Lessons for All of Us  These qualities—perseverance, focus, and relentlessness—are universal. Let’s process our emotions, choose victory, focus on what we can control, and fan the flames of relentlessness. There is so much we can learn from each other's life experiences and that is what I believe helps us be better human beings. P.S. - We chatted for hours, but forgot to take a photo together, what a shame.

We all lack motivation or ambition in moments. We’re energized when we feel motivated. It excites us to build, to move, to love. But then, when we feel that our capacity for these things has been temporarily reached, it’s as if all care goes away. We all lack motivation or ambition in moments. I know I do! It’s okay to want to do nothing. Doing nothing can oftentimes be rejuvenating. BUT — 1. Acknowledge when your battery has reached 100%. 2. Create a short to-do list. 3. Begin with the easiest thing. 4. Build momentum. Motivation and ambition are feelings. Fleeting. Temporary. Relying on them is a mistake. They leave as quickly as they appear. Know what you’re aiming for. Know which values, strengths and qualities you want to cultivate. Know why you want to cultivate them. But allow yourself to do nothing, and know when your battery has been fully recharged. Then get back to building, to moving, to loving.

Ready to unlock your potential? Let’s get straight to it. Are you tired of waiting? Most people I coach struggle to take action. Here’s how to take action: 1. Decide what you truly want. 2. Identify what’s holding you back. 3. Challenge your limiting beliefs. 4. Take that first step...now. But that’s often too much. A fulfilling life doesn’t start with hesitation. It starts with action. Skip the long explanations. Delete everything BUT the truth: You are limitless. You were born to be happy. You can create the life you want. No overthinking. No excuses. No waiting. Go after it now. Delete everything but... what truly matters. The "now part". This will change your life. P.S. How long does it take you to take action? Be honest. Share your “average time” in a comment.

I wanted to share some thoughts and tips on embarking on a journey of self-discovery, inspired by Dag Hammarskjold's insightful quote, "The longest journey is the journey inward." Self-discovery is all about learning more about yourself, your beliefs, and your potential. It's a continuous and enriching exploration that helps you understand who you are, your purpose in life, and what truly guides you. Here are a few tips to help you kickstart your journey of self-discovery: 1. Reflect on your starting point and celebrate your daily accomplishments. Taking the time to acknowledge where you began and the progress you make each day can be incredibly motivating and illuminating. 💫 2. Identify what energizes you and what drains your energy. Understanding these aspects can help you make better choices about how you spend your time and energy. 💯 3. Visualize the person you aspire to be. Imagining your future self can provide clarity and direction as you navigate your path. 🤎 4. Follow your passions and interests. Pursuing what you love can lead to profound personal insights and a greater sense of fulfillment. 🦋 5. Let go of self-doubt and silence your inner critic. Trusting yourself and your abilities is essential for personal growth and self-discovery. ✨ Additionally, traveling alone can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. It allows you to expand your worldview, develop self-reliance, and explore new facets of yourself in unfamiliar settings. 🌍 I hope these tips inspire you to embark on your own journey of self-discovery. Remember, it's a lifelong adventure filled with opportunities to learn and grow. 📍