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When we spend time with the ones we love during festive times, the merry memory making tops the list for the reason of the season. We made some Christmas gifts this year, which is always a good time spent together. Every year, we make 5-7 types of cookies and put together boxes for friends, family, and the neighborhood. Then, the kids go around to deliver them with Christmas cards. Cookies of choice this year? 🍪 Scottish shortbread with melted chocolate and Chistmas sprinkles 🍪 Peanut butter Christmas tree blossoms 🍪 Grinch cookies 🍪 Chocolate chip Christmas cookie bars 🍪 Hot chocolate cookies Baking and cooking together is a family favorite, as well as art projects whether they are regular every day options or matching a holiday theme. Whatever way you choose to spend that time together, just make sure you do. In little spurts or longer stretches. They all make a big impact and a difference. Your favorites memories may be VASTLY different from your children's favorite memories. So let them have plenty to choose from. Also, remember that they don't have to be expensive, elaborate, extravagant, or even anything monumentally out of the norm. They just have to be meaningful. Enjoy each other's company even on the days that you drive each other up the wall… those are likely the days you'll need it the most. <3 What are some ways you like to make memories with your kiddos -- especially around the holidays?? #holidays #memorymaking #merrytimes #happyholidays #memories #mompreneurs #momsinbusiness #businessmoms #festive #reasonoftheseason

🎄 Day 19: A Festive Lesson in Resilience 🎄 As Christmas approaches, it’s easy to get swept up in the glitter, the gifts, and the gravy. But the holiday season isn’t just about the sparkle—it’s about resilience, kindness, and the lessons we carry into the new year. This brings me to one of my favourite poems, Invictus by William Ernest Henley. Its final lines are a powerful reminder of the strength we all carry within us: "I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul." It’s a lesson I’ve come to embrace, especially during the festive season. Christmas can be chaotic—a whirlwind of deadlines, social obligations, and ensuring you don’t forget to buy batteries for the kids’ toys. But at its core, it’s a reminder of the things we can control: our attitude, our choices, and how we show up for the people around us. So, as the big day draws closer, let’s take a moment to reflect. Let’s focus on what matters most: the love we give, the joy we share, and the resilience we’ve shown in getting through another year. What’s one lesson you’ve learned this season that you’ll carry forward? Share it below—I’d love to hear your thoughts. 🎁 #FestiveResilience #Invictus #SeasonOfStrength

I've got my sparkly jumper on today to see Clients, as we're now in the festive season and glitter seems to be all around. (For those that know me I do love a sequin, sparkle and glitter!)✨ Plus it is "Christmas Jumper Day!" However, there are many of us feeling anxious and stressed about the next few weeks. So, I have been asking my Clients these questions to help calm their mind and focus their thoughts: 1. Take a few minutes just to think about what you want your Christmas Day to look like. 2. Think about how you want the day to feel, and more importantly, how YOU want to feel. 3. Ask yourself what you simply MUST have on the day otherwise it will be ruined forever? (Dramatic I know, but you'll see the reason in a bit!) 4. What are the jobs you need to do in order to achieve the above? 5. What are the days & times you can get the tasks done? 6. Ask for help! Who in the family can help you with the chores and Christmas preparations? 7. Ask yourself if something doesn't get done, what will ACTUALLY happen? 8. For example, what will actually happen if the ironing isn't done, or that particular part of the meal or decoration isn't on the table? By taking some time to think about what you REALLY want, what you can ACTUALLY achieve in time and what will HAPPEN if somethings aren't done or bought, will help you realise what is really important and that the world won't fall apart if everything isn't 100%. When my clients take the time to think and focus, they decide on what they will and won't do and feel much more relaxed about the weeks ahead. Let me know how you prioritise your Christmas to-do list...

Are you looking to experience a Christmas truly filled with love, happiness, and prosperity? Many of us end up focusing on the stress of the season, missing the chance to connect with those we cherish. This shouldn't be the case because there is a better way to approach this festive season. Embrace the spirit of warmth and joy in your heart, ensuring it brings you closer to loved ones. Let go of the chaos, and focus on what truly matters. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all. Commit to truly experiencing these festive moments, or else risk missing out on what the season genuinely has to offer.

🎄 Christmas Chaos? Let’s Turn It Around Does Christmas feel like a mountain you’re struggling to climb? Between the endless to-do lists, family expectations, and the pressure to make everything perfect, it’s easy to lose yourself in the hustle. 💡 Here’s the truth: You don’t have to do it all. And you definitely don’t have to do it alone. If you’re feeling: 👉 Overwhelmed by the pressure to make everyone else happy 👉 Drained from trying to juggle it all and still feeling invisible Then it’s time to put you back at the top of the list. In a one hour, one-to-one session, I’ll help you find your calm amidst the chaos, reclaim your confidence, and create space for what really matters this Christmas - your Joy 😍 It really is good to talk 😀 🎁 Ready to unwrap a more balanced, fulfilling festive season? 📧 Drop me a message, and let’s make it happen. ✨ Because life’s too short for Christmas to feel like a chore 🎄

Take ten minutes to talk about…. The festive season is heading our way, lights are twinkling, calendars are filling, and excitement is building! But before the busyness takes over, why not take ten joyful minutes with your partner & family over a coffee or delicious hot chocolate to chat about what matters most this Christmas? It’s a simple, cheerful way to get everyone on the same page and ensure this season is full of magic for all the right reasons. Having this conversation in early December means there’s time to plan, share responsibilities, and create space for everyone’s favourite traditions—whether it’s a cosy movie night, a big family dinner, or a moment of quiet reflection. It’s about making sure everyone gets their slice of festive joy. Make it fun! Why not start with… ‘’What’s one thing that would make this Christmas extra special for you?” You might uncover a hidden wish, spark a new tradition, or even find ways to lighten the load for someone facing a challenging time. Let’s make this festive season one to remember! Whether you’re celebrating or not… I’m putting joy out there for anyone that wants it… Our family have already planned a couple of things… the ‘family meal’ happens before Christmas usually because everyone likes to be at home… but this year we are having it in ’twixmas’ the bit between Christmas and New Year’s Eve… and breaking with tradition we are being hosted by our son at his house! If you have tips for people facing a difficult time, it’d be good to share these too… You might inspire someone to try something different or reach out… find their moment of joy! #familyplanning #talkingfestivities #relationshipcoach #sharingtips

🎄🎉 Post-Christmas Reflection: The Time to Plan is NOW! 🎉🎄 The decorations are coming down, the last of the Christmas leftovers are gone, and we’re looking ahead to a brand-new year. But here’s a thought: how did your family Christmas really go this year? 🤔 Was it all laughter and joy, or did a few awkward silences and unresolved questions creep in? Maybe someone joked, “Who’s getting the farm?” over dessert… but the room went silent. 😬 🎙️ Here’s the truth: every year you wait to start planning your family’s future, those little moments can grow into big, uncomfortable ones. The festive season should be about love, togetherness, and harmony—not tiptoeing around what no one wants to talk about. 👉 Imagine walking into next Christmas with certainty—a plan that brings everyone together, not pulls them apart. 👉 Imagine your kids knowing exactly what the future holds, so they can focus on being a family, not competitors. 💡 Start the conversation now. It all begins with a simple 30-minute chat. No pressure, no strings—just a chance to explore what a brighter future looks like for your family. 🔗 Book here: https://lnkd.in/g77rXpqW 🎉 Let’s make next Christmas one to truly celebrate—no awkward silences, just joy, harmony, and knowing your legacy is secure. #RuralSuccessionSolution #FamilyHarmony #PlanForTheFuture #RuralFamilies #LegacyBuilding

You don’t have to be ______ (fill in the blanks: happy, cheerful, jolly, celebrating…) just because it’s Christmas. You don’t have to______ (fill in the blanks: turn the house into Santa’s grotto, host extensively, cook a Michelin starred feast for 27, buy presents for everyone…) just because it’s Christmas. Of course, if you want to and have the capacity, you go right ahead. Christmas can be a really difficult time for many people, you maybe, because of loss, stress, illness, financial pressures, loneliness, trauma… Let’s remember that how you do Christmas, small or big (or not at all), is a choice. Yet, many of us seem to aim for the stars and take Christmas Perfection on as an absolute necessity on top of countless other responsibilities. It is well and truly time to take a reality check. So here you go. It is OK not to decorate, host, write cards, buy gifts, etc, etc, etc. It is OK to keep it small, to resist the frantic pressure to buy more things for more people who probably don’t need them. It is OK to keep it simple, low key, quiet, relaxed. Actually, it is OK to let it pass and, if you’re not feeling OK, that’s OK too. Allow YOU to count and be your own priority this year. What is it that you need to make this festive period work for you? There is nothing wrong with asking for what you need. There is nothing wrong with making changes so that this time of year, rather than depleting you, restores you… or at least allows you to remain where you are at, not worse. More than any other time, the festive season can be a period of stress and distress and excess. Let’s allow ourselves to turn it into a period of ease, release and peace. And how do I achieve this we hear you ask, well: ⚙️ focus on being more and doing less ⚙️ check in on yourself often, how do I feel/what do I need right now ⚙️ slow the pace ⚙️ set boundaries ⚙️ manage loved ones’ expectations, you are not a superhuman Take care of YOU, not just everyone else this festive season.

As we approach the festive season, your feed will soon fill with seasonal greetings and year-end reflections and even New Year’s resolutions! But just this once, let's break from tradition and talk what Christmas should be FREE from: ✔️ FREE from the race to outdo others with the shiniest decorations or biggest gift. ✔️ FREE from the pressure to wear a compulsory smile when you might feel otherwise. ✔️ FREE from the expectation that it’s a magical time machine to fix a year’s worth of mistakes and missteps. ✔️ FREE from the competition to prove you’re the best festive spirit ambassador. ✔️ FREE from the vicious circle of relentless consumerism. ✔️ FREE to use an AI-generated picture of yourself as a Santa in a LinkedIn post. ✔️ FREE to make it what you choose—whether it’s one day, two, or more, the freedom is yours. Let’s embrace what this season truly means to each of us - whether it’s family coziness, gratitude, a good book in hand, binge-watching your favorite TV series, or simply a much-needed rest before the next marathon. ✨ Over to you: What does freedom during Christmas look like for you?

It’s Christmas season, and the household decided that my “secret recipe” Christmas cake had matured long enough… so, we sliced it, air fried it, sugared it (etc) and ate it! How long had it matured, I virtually hear you asking? Much longer than you think. So, Christmas quiz time: What’s your guess? And, yes, it was delicious - if, probably, very difficult to ever repeat. But, such is the way with all things: they are transient. We preserve and sustain and scrimp and save but, despite many an archaic belief, you can’t take it with you. Hence, we ate a cake that will never likely be replicated. And? We enjoyed it! Save and be ready for emergencies. But don’t not do what you want to do for fear of tomorrow. Rather fear no tomorrows and be alive today. Yeah, yeah. I turned Christmas cake into a podium for morosely moralistic philosophising! Somewhat expected as year end approaches and we each begin our fervent annual navel gazing, our perennial period of reflexive introspection and retrospective analysis… “What did I do wrong last year?” “What can I do to make next year better?” “What is ‘better’?” Deep Thought sought the dolphins and the mice for such profundities…and that poor whale spent its short, sudden, plummeting existence futilely pondering much the same… 🐳 My advice? Spend less time on such subjective enquiry and simply enjoy the holidays… and some Christmas cake, if you can get it!