Farooq Shah’s Post

When The Holidays Feel Different The stockings are hung, the lights are twinkling, yet something feels different this year. Maybe you're feeling it too—that gentle tug between celebration and reflection, between holiday cheer and quiet contemplation. Life has its seasons, doesn't it? Sometimes we find ourselves standing in that space between what was and what will be. Between cherished traditions and new beginnings. Between the comfort of the familiar and the courage to embrace change. Here's what I've learned: It's perfectly okay to hold both. 💫To laugh with loved ones while missing familiar faces. 💫To embrace new traditions while honoring old ones. 💫To feel successful yet sense there's something more calling to you. 💫This season, give yourself permission to: Feel it all, without judgment Create space for both joy and reflection Honor your journey—past, present, and future Trust that different doesn't mean less Listen to that quiet voice within Remember: Life's most meaningful transitions often arrive disguised as ordinary moments. Even as the holiday lights sparkle, they can illuminate new paths forward. Wherever this season finds you, know that you're not alone in navigating its complexities. Here's to embracing the full spectrum of human experience—the celebrations and the quiet moments, the traditions and the transitions, the certainty and the questions. May you find unexpected gifts in this season of change. #embracechange #allthefeels #growth #journey #blessed #loved #holidaymagic

**“The holidays can be a beautiful season of joy, but for many, it can also be a time when emotions feel heavier than usual. If you’re struggling, I want you to know that you are not alone. It’s okay to pause, breathe, and take things one step at a time. Be kind to yourself. 🎄✨❄️ Remember, the holidays don’t have to look like a picture-perfect movie scene—your version of peace, love, and joy is more than enough. 💖 Whether you’re surrounded by loved ones, finding comfort in quiet moments, or simply pushing through the days, celebrate the strength it takes just to keep going. 💪🏾❤️ Lean on faith, connect with those who uplift you, and don’t be afraid to reach out for support. 🌟 You are stronger than you think, more loved than you know, and your presence here matters so much. 🎁 Let’s move into this season with hope, gratitude, and grace. You’ve come so far—and there’s more joy ahead than you can imagine. 🎊🎉 Wishing you peace, comfort, and brighter days. You’ve got this, and I believe in you! ❣️☃️”** #HolidayHope #SelfLoveJourney #YouAreNotAlone #MentalHealthMatters #HolidayJoy #FaithOverFear #KeepGoing #SpreadKindness #HolidaysWithHeart #MotivationMonday #GratitudeSeason #HopeAndHealing #StrongerTogether

🎄 Happy Holidays, Everyone! 🎄 As we wrap up the year, I’ve been reflecting on something that might resonate with you too. Sometimes, we feel this quiet pressure to become our “best version” as if everything needs to happen right now. We race through goals, believing that urgency is the only way forward. But lately, I’m realizing – this rush? It’s just a thought that needs shifting. Who decided the timeline we’re all trying to follow anyway? In chasing the future, we often forget to appreciate the version of ourselves that exists today. And maybe, just maybe, the person we are right now deserves more love, patience, and grace than we offer. So, as the holiday lights glow and the year winds down, I’m giving my current self some space to breathe — while still holding space for the growth ahead. This is not just a reminder for you — it’s for me too. Wishing you all a peaceful, joyful holiday season filled with love for the now and hope for the next. Here’s to growth, grace, and enjoying the present. Happy Holidays! #GrowthMindset #SelfLoveJourney #HolidayReflections #EmbraceThePresent #PersonalGrowth

Season's Greetings! 🎄✨ As we approach the end of another year, it's a perfect time to check in with yourself and reflect on your journey. Take a moment to look back at 2024... Self-Care & Well-Being. How did you take care of your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health? Assess your energy levels. Are there areas where you need to recharge? Achievements & Successes. Celebrate what you’ve accomplished this year, no matter how big or small. Each step forward, each challenge overcome, and each lesson learned has brought you closer to your goals. Personal Growth. In what ways have you grown or changed over the past year? Relationship & Connections. Who were the most important people in your life this year? How did your relationships evolve? What new connections did you make, and how did they impact you? Gratitude and Appreciation. What are you most grateful for this year? Who or what brought you joy and fulfillment? Taking the time to thoughtfully answer these prompts can provide clarity and inspiration as you move into the new year.   As you step into 2025, let's carry forward this momentum. Embrace the new year with optimism and determination. Remember to set aside time for self-care and well-being. Prioritizing your health and happiness is essential for sustained success and fulfillment. Wishing you all a joyful holiday season and a prosperous new year! And remember, it is not what’s under the Christmas tree that matters, but who’s around it (Charlie Brown). 😊 Let's make 2025 our best year yet! 🌟   Photo by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash

Myth Busting: Holiday Perfection is Overrated 🎉 Hey there gorgeous! 💖 Can we chat about something that's been on my mind lately? It's this whole idea of having a "perfect" holiday. I know that you see what I see in social media about all of the perfect trees, everything is in it's place, the food....don't even get me started! You know what? It's totally okay if things aren't picture-perfect! 🙈 I've been thinking about how we put so much pressure on ourselves to create these social-worthy moments, but here's the real tea: it's WAY better to just go with the flow and soak up all those messy, beautiful memories with our families. 🌟 When we stop trying to make everything look flawless, we open up space for real joy and connection. Isn't that what the holidays are truly about? So this year, I'm challenging myself (and you!) to embrace the chaos and make some authentic memories. Who's with me on this? 🙋 ♀️ I'd love to see your favorite imperfect holiday moments! Drop a 🎄 in the comments if you're ready to let go of perfection this season, and share a story about a time when things didn't go as planned, but turned out even better. 👇 Let's celebrate the beauty in whatever life dishes out for us on our own version of a silver platter together! #holidaymyths #momlife #letitgo #realparenting #ishinebrite #authenticholidays #embracetheimperfect #holidayjoy #reallife #parentingtips

It’s the end of the year and a lot of things are going on with work and with our personal lives. We close the books on one year and prepare for the prospects of the new year. Add in the holidays, vacation, family, relationships and the pressure that go along with all of it and you have the makings of some tough times. Just remember, We’ve made it this far and just because so many things are compressed in a small window of time… we must reflect on what “works for you” in life, love and business to bring happiness, joy, success and satisfaction. I don’t know if Thanksgiving is a trigger but I’ve found myself overthinking about most everything that is important to me in my life. Needless to say it doesn’t help! I’m re-grouping and rethinking choices and making decisions for myself that will lead to a successful and satisfying end to 2024 and start to 2025. We are surrounded by people that only want the best for us. Listen and embrace the people who are truly there you… YOU know who they are! BUT… always remember the choice is YOURS to do what is best for you!!! To all my followers and friends… Know who YOU are … Be who you are!!! Resist and stop overthinking! Enjoy life, love and success!!! #focusonsuccess. #focusonyou #infinitepossibilities #2025success

🎄✨ The holidays can stir up a whirlwind of emotions—memories of what was, dreams of what could have been, and even those bittersweet moments of loneliness. The weight of expectations can feel heavier than ever this time of year. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to carry that weight anymore. 💖 💌 You deserve a holiday filled with peace, not pieces of your broken past. Healing isn’t about forcing a smile or pretending everything’s picture-perfect. It’s about giving yourself the grace to feel—whether that’s laughter, tears, or a mix of both. It’s about embracing this moment and taking small, powerful steps toward a lighter, brighter future that reflects the real you. 🎁 This season, give yourself the ultimate gift: Saying no without guilt. Your energy is sacred—protect it by setting boundaries that honor your needs. Prioritizing what makes YOU happy. Whether it’s a quiet morning with coffee, a walk in the snow, or a cozy holiday movie marathon, you deserve to pour into yourself. Creating new traditions. Let go of what doesn’t serve you and make room for traditions that celebrate your growth and joy. ✨ You’re not defined by what you’ve lost, but by how beautifully you rise. And let me tell you, your glow-up is already in full swing. 🌟 When the holidays feel overwhelming, don’t forget: you’re allowed to rewrite the rules. This season is about more than just surviving—it’s about thriving in ways that truly matter to YOU. Need a little extra cheer and support? Check out The Nichole Banks Podcast for conversations that inspire healing, self-love, and starting fresh. 🎧 💬 What’s one thing you’ll do just for you this holiday? Let’s swap ideas and spark some inspiration in the comments. #DivorcedAndHealing #HolidayHealing #YouDeservePeace #NewTraditions #DivorceRecovery #SelfLoveSeason #BoundariesMatter #ChristmasHealing #DivorcedNotBroken #WomenSupportingWomen #PeacefulHolidays #SelfCareMatters #DareToBegin #HolidayHeartache #HealingJourney #ReclaimYourJoy

HAPPY HOLIDAYS 🎄 As the holiday season unfolds, I want to wish you and your loved ones joy, peace, and the chance to truly savor what matters most. Right now, I’m soaking in time with family and friends, exactly what this season is about. I hope you’re doing the same and creating moments of connection and reflection. This time of year is perfect for celebrating progress, reflecting on growth, and thinking about how you want to care for yourself moving forward. Why wait until January to start? ✨ Use this season to: Reflect on all you’ve accomplished this year. Envision how you want to feel physically, emotionally, and spiritually in 2025. Take small, intentional steps toward the life you desire now. You are worthy of freedom, peace, and fulfillment. Take time to align with what matters most, and let’s step into 2025 together with strength, intention, and grace. How are you taking care of yourself this holiday season? Wishing you a season filled with joy, love, and God’s abundant blessings. #happyholidays #selfcare #reflection #intentionalliving #peaceandjoy #holidayseason2024 #stepinto2025 #celebrateprogress #faithandblessings #mindfulmoments #christianwomeninbusiness #kingdombusiness

Someone once told me, “You just need to suck it up...it’s the holidays, and they’re your family.” What are your thoughts? I'd love yo hear from you! For years, I believed this. I thought I had to show up no matter what. To keep the peace, endure toxic energy, and stay silent because “they’re family.” But here’s the truth: being family doesn’t give anyone permission to disrespect your boundaries or drain your energy. It took me YEARS to realize I didn’t have to sacrifice my peace or authenticity just to avoid conflict. I learned to set boundaries with kindness and still protect my energy. And most importantly, I created holidays that felt joyful and meaningful...on MY terms. If this resonates with you, here’s what I want you to know: ➡️ You are NOT obligated to sacrifice your well-being for anyone...not even family. ➡️ You CAN set boundaries that honor your values and your peace. ➡️ You DESERVE holidays that feel aligned with your joy, not other people’s expectations. That’s why I’m hosting a FREE Masterclass: Authentically You: Finding Peace and Joy This Holiday Season. ✨ Let go of guilt and perfectionism. ✨ Set boundaries that feel empowering and kind. ✨ Create a holiday that feels good to YOU. 📅 When: December 4th at 7 PM EST 📍 Where: Zoom Register Here 👇 https://lnkd.in/ehkWFt7T #authenticity #Christmas #holidayseason #holiday #Thanksgiving #peace #joy

🎄 Finding Joy Amid Uncertainty This Holiday Season 🎁 As the holidays approach, it’s hard not to feel the weight of uncertainty in the world. 🌍 Challenges—both personal and global—can make this time of year feel daunting. The future may seem unpredictable, and that can be scary. 😟 But amid the uncertainty, there’s also joy. ✨ It’s in the twinkle of lights, the laughter shared over meals 🍽️, and the small acts of kindness 🤝 that remind us of the good in the world. The holidays have a way of bringing out the best in people, reminding us to slow down, connect, and cherish the moments that truly matter. ❤️ While we can’t always control the unknown, we can choose to focus on the present. 🌟 This season, let’s find joy in the simple things, extend kindness where we can, and hold on to hope for brighter days ahead. 🌈 How are you creating joy this holiday season? Let’s share the light with one another. ✨💬 #HolidaySeason #FindingJoy #Gratitude #Hope #SpreadKindness 🎅🎁