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I’m generally pretty laid-back, but there’s one thing that can frustrate me: people who just TALK about their goals, instead of taking action. I get it—starting can feel overwhelming, and the pressure to be perfect can hold you back. But guess what? It doesn’t have to be that way! If you’re ready to turn those goals into reality, check out this mini-training: Setting Up for Success. Action before perfection, baby!!! Let’s make your dreams happen. 🫶🏻 Working with me means that you will shift the focus from talking to taking action. I still have 1:1 coaching spots available in 2024, if you want to achieve your goals before the new year! Whether it’s creating new healthy habits, moving abroad, saying ‘bye’ to old patterns or managing change: I got you. Send me a DM or email me at: hello@stevannevandervelden.com Talk to you soon! With love, Stevanne

You’re considering working with a coach on some peronsal growth goals you have for yourself, but you have questions… 🤔 …You’re wondering whether this will even work for you …Whether you’re even able to create the life you want considering all the things that have happened in your past …Whether someone like you should even ask for support Here’s what I want you to know: 1️⃣ It is safe for you to make a change, even a big change, in your life now 2️⃣ It is possible for you to the make the changes you want to make 3️⃣ It is okay to ask for help These elements are an essential part of the coaching process. My work is not to tell you what to do; your heart and mind will do that. 💗 My work is to help you feel safe to go after your dreams, to know that it is possible to reach them, and to offer guidance in as open, loving and supportive a way as possible until you become the version of yourself who’s living the life you desire. Are you ready to get started? The first step is scheduling a consultation with me. 🗓️ You get to pick the time on my calendar that works best for you. It’s one hour on Zoom, and we’ll discuss all of this, as well as your unique vision for yourself and your life. Go ahead right now and select the time on my calendar that works best for you: https://lnkd.in/grWxsHtq I can’t wait to speak with you!

Do you find yourself playing small and downsizing your dreams out of fear? Maybe you constantly ask, "What if it doesn't work out?" You worry about embarrassment and disappointment, and decide to shrink your goals to avoid risking anything. Here's a powerful question to coach yourself with instead: 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗼𝘂𝘁? Take a moment today to reflect on your biggest dreams. Replace your "What if it doesn't work out?" with "What if it DOES work out?" Share one dream you're ready to pursue with a positive outlook in the comments below. 💪✨

Discovering Your True Self is a journey worth taking. In a world filled with noise and expectations, finding our true selves can feel like a daunting task. Yet, this journey of self-discovery is essential for leading a fulfilling and authentic life. Here are some steps that have helped me and others on this path: 1. Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your values, passions, and strengths. Journaling or meditative practices can provide clarity on what truly matters to you. 2. Listen to Your Inner Voice: Pay attention to your intuition and inner desires. Often, we already know what we want, but external influences can drown out our inner voice. 3. Embrace Vulnerability:Being honest with yourself about your fears, insecurities, and dreams is crucial. Vulnerability is a strength that leads to genuine self-awareness. 4. Seek Feedback: Engage with trusted friends, mentors, or coaches who can offer objective insights about your strengths and areas for growth. Sometimes, others can see what we cannot. 5. Experiment and Explore: Try new activities, hobbies, or roles. Exploration helps you discover what resonates with you and what doesn't. 6. Let Go of Perfection: Accept that finding your true self is a process. There is no perfect version of you, only a more authentic one. 7. Align with Your Values: Make decisions that reflect your core values. When your actions are in harmony with your beliefs, you'll feel more connected to your true self. Finding your true self is a continuous journey, not a destination. It's about peeling back the layers of societal expectations and rediscovering the unique individual you were always meant to be. What steps have you taken on your journey to self-discovery? I'd love to hear your experiences in the comments below✨ #selfdiscovery #authenticity #imageconsultant #softskillstrainer #coach #tuesdaytips

✨ 30 Days to Change Your Life ✨ Tired of feeling stuck? Overwhelmed? Unsure how to take the next step? Let’s break the cycle together. 30 Days of Consistency isn’t just a program—it’s your chance to finally: ✅ Build new habits that stick ✅ Break through the mental and emotional roadblocks holding you back ✅ Gain clarity, purpose, and confidence ✅ Take charge of your growth and future This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a focused, action-packed journey designed to help you transform your mindset and take control of your life. 💡 Why it works: You’ll get personalized, one-on-one Counseling/Coaching with me, tailored practices to fit your unique needs, and the accountability you need to follow through. 30 days & Countless breakthroughs. 🌟 If you’re ready to finally put yourself first, comment “CONSISTENT” below or DM me to get started. The life you deserve starts with the consistency you commit to today. Let’s get to work.

Most of my clients are much smarter than me. They don't need me. They want me. They are experts in their field or areas, and I have nothing to add there. But if you're not an expert in your own life, you need me. So they're smart enough to know that most successful people have a coach. In more than one area of their lives. As for me - I am here to coach you to Buy Yourself and Your Life. Here's what my clients say about joining my Buy Yourself coaching: ✨ "Choosing to invest in myself was the best decision I could have made. You helped me realize that 'buying myself' wasn't selfish—it was essential for my growth." ✨ "Setting boundaries has always been tough for me. With your support, I've learned to say no without feeling guilty, and it's freed me so much." ✨ "I was always worried about pleasing others and neglected my own needs. You taught me that true happiness starts with putting myself first." ✨ "Working with you helped me understand my true worth. I no longer spend energy where it isn't valued—I choose me." You might not need a coach, but you might want one to: ▶ ⁠Know how to be your true self: Discover and affirm who you are and what truly matters to you. ▶ ⁠Live a life true to yourself: Make choices that align with your deepest values and aspirations. ▶ ⁠Find personal freedom: Overcome the fear of judgment and expectations to live on your terms. ▶ Develop inner strength: Build the confidence to stand up for your beliefs and dreams. ❓ What areas of your life could benefit from the clarity that coaching provides? P.S. If you ever find yourself talking to your plants about your life choices, it might be time to talk to me instead!

🌟 𝐃𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦 𝐁𝐢𝐠: 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮 🌟 Every incredible achievement starts with a dreamer—someone like you who dares to dream big. "You have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars and change the world." - Harriet Tubman While believing in yourself is crucial, achieving your dreams often requires more than just inner strength. You might need the right resources, opportunities, training, or support to help you along the way. Embrace your journey and seek out what you need to turn your dreams into reality! ✨ Ready to take the first step? Download my FREE Mindset Workbook today and start building the foundation you need to create the life you desire. 👉 https://lnkd.in/esQuRh5i

1. Of 2. Meaningful goals lead to clear plans. Clear plans lead to massive action.
 Massive action leads to greater results. 
That is why you must START with CLEAR, meaningful goals. The first step in getting anywhere you want to go is to KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING.

 If you don’t know where you are going, the chances of getting where you WANT are not very good. So first ask yourself what you really want from your life. What do you want within the next 5-10 years?

 Write down a clear description of the person you would be, the people who would be in your life, the health and fitness you would have, the wealth and abundance – everything you want in great detail.

 Once you have that you might want to ask yourself WHY. 

WHY do you want this life? 
WHY MUST YOU HAVE IT? There’s a famous quote by Nietzsche that says “He who has a WHY to live for can bear almost any HOW.” This means that with a “WHY”… with a deep and meaningful purpose, ANYONE can overcome almost any “HOW”… almost anything life throws in our path. This is important, because simply being human we KNOW that life will throw many obstacles in our path. 
 

Without a strong REASON WHY most people will turn around, give up… most people will quit.




🌟 𝐃𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦 𝐁𝐢𝐠: 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮 🌟 Every incredible achievement starts with a dreamer—someone like you who dares to dream big. "You have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars and change the world." - Harriet Tubman While believing in yourself is crucial, achieving your dreams often requires more than just inner strength. You might need the right resources, opportunities, training, or support to help you along the way. Embrace your journey and seek out what you need to turn your dreams into reality! ✨ Ready to take the first step? Download my FREE Mindset Workbook today and start building the foundation you need to create the life you desire. 👉 https://lnkd.in/eePwW3Er

Never focus on the obstacles to your dreams! 🌟 Instead, concentrate on the paths that lead you there. Every journey comes with challenges, but it’s how you respond to those challenges that makes all the difference. When you encounter obstacles, it’s easy to get discouraged. However, shifting your focus to the potential paths forward can inspire creativity and resilience. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this situation?” or “How can I navigate around this challenge?” By maintaining a solution-oriented mindset, you empower yourself to find ways to move forward. 🚀 Having an outstanding positive mindset is crucial. It influences your thoughts, actions, and ultimately your outcomes. Surround yourself with positivity—be it through uplifting quotes, supportive friends, or inspiring stories. 🌈 These elements can help reinforce your belief in your ability to overcome challenges and achieve your dreams. Stay on that positive mindset! Remind yourself regularly of your goals and why they matter to you. Visualization can be a powerful tool; take a moment each day to envision yourself succeeding. This practice can help keep your motivation high and your focus sharp. Remember, the journey to your dreams may not always be straightforward, but with the right mindset and a focus on the paths ahead, you can navigate any obstacle that comes your way. Keep pushing forward, and believe in the possibilities! You’ve got this! 💪✨ Video: @stayoriginal