Bowman Legacies ’s Post

I’ve always been a dreamer. I’ve not always been a doer. When the two met in the middle with intentional planning and a greater sense of purpose, well folks massive change happened. My marriage got better. My engagement with my kids deepened. My career moved forward. My online presence expanded. Too many of us are all plannin and no dreamin, Too many of us are all dreamin and no plannin, Too many of us sit bewildered why things aren’t moving forward in our lives, Scratchin our heads feeling sorry for ourselves like a forlorn child who just lost his lolly pop! What we must endeavor to do in this world of complaining and self righteous outrage is keep a balance of wonder, and hope. We must keep the dream alive all while planning and doing. It’s kinda like a monkey on a tightrope, riding a unicycle, while juggling chainsaws. The dream is to get to the other side with all your arms! The doing is keeping balance, looking ahead, all while knowing each move you make before you make it. By the time you pull that rip cord and set out, it ain’t time for winging it. Oh you’ll fail. And trust me I was afraid of failure. But once you fall flat on your face once or twice in front of your peers a handful of times, You’ll see how much of a opportunity failure can be. If you keep the right mindset, learn, you’re gonna grow like a fertilized weed in good cow manure. Besides, iffen you look real close, there ain’t no chains on those saws anyway. Dream Do Repeat! And if your confused about the process we at Bowman Legacies have an online class coming soon helping you master dream chasing! #dream #coach #personaldevelopment #bowmanlegacies

Forsaking your dreams by substituting the process with picking a permanent job, just for survival is why many waste away at their midlife, and become unfulfilled at old age. Why are we ready to be disciplined, diligent and committed to a job we're paid to do, but will never invest such culture and mindset into own dreams? It doesn't actually matter how much you're making. Anything that takes your focus away completely from a dream or purpose you should nurture, Is a "killer". It's okay to diversify and live in the now, but loosing sight of what brings fulfillment in life is much more dangerous. There'll come a time you'll wish you pursued your dreams, and all you'll be faced with will be "had I known". God forbid! Please, do something about that God-given dreams. Wake up!!! #lifecoach #lifelessons #wisdom #wisewords #relationshipadvice #marriagecoach #relationshipgoals

Tuesday’s are for testimonials! I love Greg C’s direct, no fluff account of our work together and what he gained. “Jess was a big help to me just at the right point in my life. I met her during a challenging transitional time, and she helped me get through it. She had the perfect perspective I needed. More generally, she taught me tools and meditation techniques that I use often to manage day-to-day stresses and see life with the proper perspective. As part of our time together, she took me through exercises where we looked at each decade of my life, what happened during each, and helped me see how those experiences have shaped my current mind set. Out of those insights, I’ve been able to make changes and move forward. As part of her coaching, I took the Gallup Core Strengths assessment and she helped me interpret the results, which I continue to apply to my life now and for the foreseeable future.” Are you in need of solid support, gentle guidance and tangible tools to support you through a major life transition such as divorce, relocation or switching careers? Reach out and let’s connect. I currently have two 1:1 coaching spots available to begin right away. #testimonial #lifecoaching #successstories #coachingtools #transformation

For some, the thought of making progress is daunting. Resistance takes place to accept that there are other options, doubt creeps in, and it's a struggle to make a choice that could provide change for the good. Once a person realises there is benefit and value in what could be achieved, they are more likely to take steps to make changes. But, looking at the image, and from various conversations I have had with clients, colleagues and friends, it was evident that this image portrayed to them success in career, business, the new car or the big house. In reality, the steps in the image are not just about where their life took them in their career or business or purchases. It was about overcoming obstacles. The situations in life that surprise us. For me, it was divorce and being financially drained. Getting out of the mind-bending spiral of emotions and being able to support myself better both mentally and physically, this was my success. The steps were high, but I managed a step at a time, and whilst I did, there was learning and growth. The beauty about this was that even though there was a more significant outcome from the start, each step had a small goal to achieve, which allowed me to move onto the next, it was the small changes that made the biggest of impacts. And now, if life offers up one of its surprises, there is already a list of helpful resources available. Some may still compare their progress with another; remember that they started somewhere, they had a vision or just an idea, and it was the small steps with the end outcome in mind that kept them going, and just like you, we've all overcome challenges. We're all capable of so much more; stay determined and disciplined. If you need or want a chat, feel free to book a call at www.manishgohel.com/15min or email info@manishgohel.com #manishgohelcoaching #seeyourselfdifferently #divorce #singleparent #career #business #growth #success #relationships #nlp #nlpcoach #nlptrainer #anxiety #stress #mentalhealth #wellbeing

"What if I’m just lucky?" I recently met two people with opposing views on luck. One believed they were lucky, while the other thought they were unlucky. Surprisingly, both were unhappy. This got me thinking: Why? The person who saw themselves as lucky often felt like their success was fragile—like it could disappear at any moment because it wasn’t rooted in their own efforts. On the other hand, the person who felt unlucky believed they were powerless, and that no amount of effort could overcome the odds stacked against them. At first glance, their situations seem completely different, but their unhappiness stemmed from the same root: a fear of uncertainty and a lack of control. Here’s the thing—no amount of success, resources, or even good fortune can resolve the fear of uncertainty. The more we resist or try to avoid this fear, the more entangled we become in it. The only way out? Through it. This means learning to meet and befriend uncertainty. Life’s uncertainty is unavoidable. The only choice you have is whether to choose fear or faith when faced with the unknown. Many of us don’t even realize we’re making this choice because we’re conditioned to fear the unknown. While this conditioning keeps us safe, it can also hold us back from embracing opportunities that bring out the best in us. So, take a moment to reflect: - What is your relationship with the unknown and the uncertainties of life? - Where in your life are you choosing fear over faith? The power to choose differently lies within you. 🌱 #luck #fear #uncertainty #lifecoach

8 keys in my opinion to achieving what you want in your career and life! 1. Morning routine- daily routine is vital. How you start determines how you finish often. 2. Your environment. You will become who you hang around. Your circle matters. Get rid of the naysayers and the negative and drama in your life. 3. Accept responsibility for everything. Stop blaming others, stop making excuses. Outside things do happen but make sure to control all you can about you. If your team fails, take ownership as the leader, you failed. Get back up and do it again. 4. Take Action. Without action, nothing happens. Massive focused action is a must. 5. Stop trying to do everything yourself. To grow you have to have help. You must empower and lead other to their potential. 6. Consistency. Without this, every great idea dies. It is not what you did yesterday, or last month, what does the last 5 years look like? 7. Believe in yourself. This is a must. You must develop confidence where you believe in yourself and what you are doing. Find your WHY. Once you are obsessed with what you are doing and your believe that you are the best at it, the sky is the limit. If you believe you can than you can and if you believe you can’t you can’t. 8. Never ever give up. Life is tough, marriage is tough, careers are tough. It will be tough. Know that now. Never give up on your dreams and always remember why you started. Pain is temporary, quitting is forever. Yes, it is a Saturday and yes I listened to motivation this morning. Try it, it is good for the mind and the day. Make it a great weekend!

Finding Growth After Toxic Friendships 🌻✨ Letting go of a toxic friendship can feel like losing a part of yourself, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and renewal. Once the negativity is removed, you make room for positive energy and relationships that truly add value to your life. 🌱 🔑 Focus on Growth: →Surround Yourself with Positivity: Seek out relationships with people who genuinely care about your well-being and support your goals. →Invest in Self-Care: After leaving a toxic relationship, it’s crucial to nurture yourself—whether it’s through therapy, hobbies, or simply taking time for reflection. →Reflect and Learn: Every experience, even the painful ones, carries a lesson. Reflect on what you’ve learned from the toxic friendship and use that wisdom to make better choices in the future. Healing takes time, but it’s worth it. How have you grown after leaving a toxic friendship? What changes did you notice in yourself? Share your journey with us—your story might inspire someone else to embrace change and focus on their own growth. 🌟 #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset #HealthyRelationships 

Get in the game.. The easy thing to do is always to run, hide or act a if things don't exist. This is easy,becks this is what we're use to and what we are in control of. It's not until you believe and come into agreement with what has already been spoken about you (every promise in Goddard word) that you'll begin to see the change you're seeking. Face what has caused your delay. Face what makes you fearful. Face what makes you feel inferior. Face what causes you to compare. And CHALLENGE IT! You don't have to accept it! Don't just sit back and let life happen to you. 1. Show Up 2. Be Present 3. Be Self- Aware You don't back down from anything, change your view point, change the "image", How can you use this as leverage, what invaluable lesson have you gained? Instead of being reactive to what takes place in your life, become proactive! Knowing what you will allow and won't, what works for you and what doesn't, and what brings out the best parts of you and what keeps you in an inferior position. Partner with God/Jesus/Holy Spirit, they are a solid executive team..10/10, highly recommend👌🏾 Your life has a bigger purpose than what you have been waking up to everyday.. Fustration will cease when you stop fighting against the one who is shinning the light 🔦on your way out! #lifecoach_tondalia https://lnkd.in/d895xapu https://lnkd.in/emrFfYzR

3 things I have learned that allow me to be successful in life. Let's. be honest, most of us have gone through it in some form or another. And some have had it worse than others. Could have been a: → Tough divorce → Death of family or loved one → Loss of a business or income → Major betrayal → Heartbroken → Major events outside of your control → Loss of the will to create a meaningful life Or even a combination of many of those. Acting like a continual negative domino 🂄 effect. And in my case, it was... (all of the above). One thing after another. These experiences can leave us feeling lost and depleted, but they don't have to define us. 3 THINGS I LEARNED: 1. Only have friends and colleagues in your life who uplift and inspire you and allow you to grow into a better you.  2. Find a purpose larger than yourself. You will find that will start making the impossible, not only possible but "probable." 3. Embrace the process. It takes the right amount of time. - Failure is not failure, it's the opportunity to learn and improve.  - Have multiple streams of income and opportunities that are closely aligned.  - If anyone can make it happen, it's you.  Remember: You have the power to overcome adversity and create the life you desire. Go out there and make it happen! If I can support your goals let me know or schedule some time with me (my schedule link is on my LinkedIn profile). Even if I am not the right fit, I do have a powerful network. I probably know a guy (so to speak). 💁🏻♂️ #motivationmonday #growth #success

If you are in a slump now then.. Let's remember that it is a phase.. no matter how much your mind is telling you to procrastinate.. if you are still feeling a sense of unrest then the desire to excel is still there.. and you need to connect with that desire in a massive way..so that there is no other option left apart from taking action: Here is my recommendation: 1. Help yourself to make the goal easy: (Want to go to gym? Keep your gym clothes ready the previous night. Want to read? Keep your favourite book by your bedside where you can see it. 2. Enough with the shaming: When has anyone accomplished anything meaningful out of shame and forced judgement. The inner language has to be compassionate, kind and patient.. 3. Rip the bandaid: Do it today. Yes, sometimes it is just that. Allow that strong nurtured inner voice to guide you - 'I am doing this today because it matters to me. It helps me become who I really want to be. It takes me closer to my dreams.' 4. Plug the leakage: Your time is getting wasted somewhere instead of being invested in things that are fruitful for you. Identify what that is and shut it down. Completely. Today is that day. Yes!! 5. Make a list: Make it. Sometimes it is just the overwhelm of too many things going on that keep you in a slump. So, empty your mind.. and then go after what's urgent and important. You got this, my warrior! You are Unstoppable!! You can stop postponing life today. Go after your dreams now.. This is YOUR time! 🔥 #aparnagautam #careercoach #lifecoach