It was a Tuesday afternoon in 2020 when a dear friend and former colleague was sat across from me in my living room in Amman. We were talking deeply about life, love, work, and systems of power and privilege. The conversation escalated into mutual (and not mutual) frustrations with the humanitarian aid system in which I was working at the time. In a moment of anger, he looked at me and said:
"You don't even deserve your salary. Your entire career is predicated upon my suffering. You make money by talking about our pain. At least 50% should be given to me and your other friends from whose pain you profit."
I sat, incredulous. I sat deep in thought, in guilt, in my own anger, in sadness, in conviction, and in a thousand impulses towards defensiveness (impulses which are to be explored in therapy, but not necessarily in every conversation with friends across lines of power and privilege). Even now, I have an urge to share my nuanced thoughts in response. But, I won't do that. I'll offer his comments, and my discomfort--a discomfort that lives and breathes within me and many others working in humanitarian aid, international development, and philanthropy.
This leads me to my invitation.
On November 11, Salama is honored to partner with Catalyst 2030 to host the host the next Shifting the Funding Paradigm "Conversations & Connections Café." Mark your calendars as we host a session on "Shining a Light on Barriers to Inclusion" as part of the Shifting the Funding Paradigm series.
We will explore the barriers to inclusion of affected communities through four critical lenses: legal, normative, financial, and power dynamics. We’ll examine through brief case studies and practical examples how issues in these four areas promote exclusion and inequity, and how rethinking traditional funding models can help dismantle these barriers.
Be prepared for discomfort with no immediate resolution. Session will be in Arabic and English, with peer translation in real-time amongst the speakers.
✨Date: November 11
🕔Time: 5 PM CET
Sign up here:
Head of Programs chez ADA - Appui au Développement Autonome
1moSuch a wonderful and memorable moment to have the BFFI team all together in one place for the first time! Thank you for considering me as an honorary member—it means a lot. I truly believe BFFI is doing a fantastic job driving meaningful impact. Safe travels to Shashaank and Alison for the upcoming conference, and I’m excited to see what’s next!