We are trained to look at things from eye level. When I worked in retail, I was in charge of carrying out “planograms” for the aisles - basically a design for where each individual item will go on a section in each aisle. If you’ve ever wondered why Coke is always at eye level - this is it. They pay for that space, just as many companies pay for the end of the aisle to advertise their products. Rarely do we buy things from the bottom aisle unless we are forced to or we really can’t find what we are looking for. Which is why it is so unsurprising that no one sees this homeless man. Why would you? He’s not at your eye level. But, just like those lonely, unwanted products in the aisles, he still very much exists and would love for you to show him some attention. Now, more than ever, as we run up to a cold winter, it’s important that we take time to stop and look down. It’s not about passing judgement - it’s about acknowledgment. Just because we are trained to look at eye level, that’s not necessarily where the good stuff is. Often the own branded stuff is on the bottom but quite a bit of it tastes just as good but because it’s their brand it is relegated to the floor. We don’t know why so many homeless people end up in situations where they are forced to beg or sleep on the streets. But the time for us to simply ignore that bottom shelf because it doesn’t have anything on it we want is up. We need to start taking responsibility for those unfortunate enough to be on the streets. It doesn’t look like the giver is going to, so we need to step up. And it starts just by looking down. Then saying hello. And trying to get a conversation. And see where it leads. You may find a valued friend. You may find someone who needs a little bit of help. You might find someone a bit afraid, as we are, of knowing what the right thing is. The right thing is just to talk to them and see how they are. And go from there. Start with a conversation. That’s what you’d want, if you felt invisible and unseen. #homelessness
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"I sort of run the streets around here in West Croydon. I've been out for 7 years, but even when you do get a bed, it's just more time on the streets and then you just go to bed to pass out really. But the last time I was in somewhere, they broke both my ribs, you know? If you need anything, I'm always here, yeah?" When you travel around London you met almost all types of people. This gent was so friendly and funny, disarming and charming. It was hard to tell he'd been out so long. He had broken his leg so he was resting. But he was so up for a chat and I just think, it only takes a minute to stop and say hello. I started with "Hey man, I love your tattoos and your glasses are just ace. Where did you get them?" In the end we chatted for a while, and whilst I didn't really change his life much, letting him talk helps him to process trauma, helps him to know the public aren't always against the homeless. Even if we aren't, every time we walk past and ignore them, silence sends a stronger message than you think. If you have any opportunity, a few minutes; have a chat. It may not make you feel better. If may not even make them feel better. But you'll be working towards sending a message: that ultimately we, the public, want to help. We aren't always in a position to help financially. But what CAN we do? We can communicate. We can say hello. Wave. Smile. Hug. Whatever you feel comfortable doing. You don't want to offer them money but want to do something? Go and get them an Evening Standard, a Metro newspaper. "Have you read today this headline? What did you think about it? How are you doing?" Or maybe get them some water? It's quite hot out there at the moment. They're just like you or I - what separates us is just a few different decisions. Trust me, there is more that unites us than divides us. See how easy it is? Try it sometime :) #homelessness #stories #howtohelpthehomeless
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Here are some simple ways to practice caring for others in your daily life: 1. Random Acts of Kindness: Surprise someone with a small act of kindness, like paying for their coffee or leaving an uplifting note. 2. Listen Actively: When someone shares their thoughts or feelings, listen attentively without interrupting. Show empathy and understanding. 3. Volunteer: Dedicate some time to volunteer at a local shelter, food bank, or community center. Your efforts can make a big difference. 4. Check-In on Loved Ones: Reach out to friends, family, or neighbors. A simple “How are you?” can brighten someone’s day. 5. Support Local Businesses: Choose to shop locally or support small businesses. Your patronage helps them thrive. Remember, even small gestures can have a big impact. If you want to care for someone by providing a housing option, call us: 📞 (839) 895-3759 📩 3elevenlivingsolutions@gmail.com 🌐 https://lnkd.in/gfs9C-y7 #3elevenlivingsolutions #caringforothers #caringcommunity #independentlivingfacility #actsofkindness
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Yesterday, a homeless guy in Manhattan changed my life. Or at the very least, my perspective on life. Standing near Times Square, he held up a cardboard sign. But not with the usual “HUNGRY. PLEASE HELP!” plea everyone ignores. This one? It had a very bold message that stood out: “FAMILY KIDNAPPED BY NINJAS. NEED $$$ FOR KARATE LESSONS.” People stopped. They pointed. Heads turned. The crowd ignored the flashing Manhattan billboards, and focused on a homeless person with a sign. It was unexpected, clever, and completely disarming. Let's face it. We all know why he’s homeless. He knows why he’s homeless. But this sign broke through the noise. For a moment, he wasn’t just another forgettable, ignorable sidewalk statistic. He was a person—flawed, battling addiction, struggling, but human. What if every homeless sign did this? Made you feel something. Anything. Humor, empathy, even guilt. Would it fix homelessness? No. But maybe it’d remind us they’re people, not just problems. *** [In case you're wondering: I’m Abraham Bree, founder of Brand:Whatever. Our team turns bland brands into bold ones that can’t be ignored. With experience on both the agency and corporate sides, we craft branding strategies and marketing campaigns that drive results. Ready to stand out? hello@brandwhatever.com
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❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓ Is your container “containing” too much? Is it time to “shed” your shed? How ‘bout the TOOLBOX OF TREPIDATION where you have a thousand screws but all you need is a knife? 🧰🧰🧰🧰🧰🧰🧰🧰🧰🧰 Well I have an idea for you… If you can overcome your separation anxiety… THRIFT STORES. 🫙🫙🫙🫙🫙🫙🫙🫙🫙🫙 If there was a Phd in second-hand shopping I would have an honorary degree. For years my mom and I spent Saturdays going through a circuit of thrift stores. We’d hit 2 in the morning, stop for a burrito, hit 2 or 3 more, then go home with our small treasures. We didn’t have much money growing up so thrift store shopping felt like you were supporting the community. It was a poor person’s way of giving back. Thrift stores are also an important archive of culture. They are the accumulation points of things that mattered in a certain time and place: the music we loved, the clothing we wore, the art we hung, the furniture we used, the books we read, the machines we ran, and everything else we may have forgotten. But most importantly…they’re a good excuse to spend time with friends or family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Got a kid addicted to video games 🎮? Turn off their computer, put them in the car, give them spending money, and walk them through the store with commentary. This is John Denver. He was a popular singer in the 70s. This is a Tiffany lamp. Can you see any plants or animals in the glass? This is an original Tupperware. People used to have parties in their houses and sell this stuff! 🪚🪛🗜️🪓🔩⛏️⚙️🔧⚡️🔌🔨 This is also a great way for men to affirm relationships or create new ones. Get some guys together and see if you can find machinery, tools, boat stuff, parts, furniture to refinish or anything else. Then hit the sports bar for hamburgers. 🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔 What I’ve learned along the way: 1. Salvation Army is better than Goodwill. However, both support good programs. 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰 2. The best thrift stores are in the worst neighborhoods. They are often run by a religious group. But sometimes they are started by individuals who care deeply about their community and just wanted neighbors to have affordable baby necessities, wheelchairs, house goods and clothing. When you leave, thank them for their service. They are angels in disguise. 😇 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇 3. Many thrift stores don’t distinguish construction materials as an important section. Do you have a lot of stuff to give that could help a new tradesperson with their career? Or a retired person with a limited income? Talk to the manager of the store. Tell them your team will build a wall with hooks and shelving for the sole purpose of displaying construction materials and related books. And you will knock it out in one day. For free. Because THAT’S how we roll. 🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️🛠️ What have YOU found at a thrift store? 😍 #construction #tools #build #parts #machine #giving #charity #thriftstore
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Question: Why is providing meals so important? Answer: Meals are foundational to ministry for several reasons. I’ll share two. First, getting a good meal can seem impossible when you are on the streets. Without nourishment, not only are people’s bodies broken down, but their minds also can’t function well, making it difficult to make different, healthier choices. Secondly, meals are a simple but effective way for us to begin forming relationships with men and women experiencing homelessness. By providing healthy, delicious meals, we show people that we believe they are worthy of being cared for and loved. .
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