Alan Lau’s Post

The harrowing story highlights a grim reality we must fight in the strongest sense! Schools are meant to be safe havens for learning and growth, not sites of trauma for young people. Every child deserves to learn and thrive in an environment free from fear, harassment, and violence. We must empower young people to understand their rights, report abuse, and advocate for themselves and others, strengthen accountability systems to ensure justice and the protection of students, and dismantle norms that silence survivors and shield offenders. https://lnkd.in/e5BmTa3f

Every child deserves a place of learning free from fear, harm, and harassment both virtually and within the walls of the physical school environment. It is gradually becoming a norm to have students bully fellow students and teachers bully students. As a result, we have in recent times witnessed a number of murder cases committed within school premises or even suicide cases still as a result. Today as we commemorate the International Day Against Violence and Bullying at School including Cyberbullying, Mercy Drops Foundation is urging us, 1. To be more vigilant. 2. To Protect, Education and Empower children around us and those directly under our care. #SayNoToBullying #YoungPeopleSafetyMatters #EndViolence

It's time to bring working with parents into focus! In #childcriminalexploitation (CCE), we must improve our response to parents and wider family members. Research shows that a whole-family approach is the most effective form of intervention. 🚨 Join me on the 6th of June, 12.30 - 2.20 pm 🚨, for an online training session that brings parents as partners directly into focus. Focusing on child criminal exploitation, participants will learn practical research-informed approaches to working closely with parents and family members to create more effective outcomes for children and young people. Click the link for more information: https://lnkd.in/gb9vG3yb  #wholefamilyapproach #childprotection

Coercive control is dangerously increasing in the family court system, yet the impact on children is being overlooked. Children raised in a coercive environment come out with long-lasting scars, constantly live a life of fear, and lack safety to thrive. We have only begun to scratch the surface on this detrimental issue. Read more here...#coercivecontrol #familycourt #psychologicalanalysis #childreninthemiddle

The roots of Domestic violence are in the schools. If we do not take intervention measures to stop bullying first, the DV will continue. please read the article below: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND SCHOOL BULLYING: AN EXAMINATION OF THE INEXTRICABLE LINK BETWEEN THE TWO AND THE USE OF RESTORATIVE JUSTICE TO BREAK THE CYCLE. https://lnkd.in/g9KdUQQ8

Is it me or has this #safeguarding case had very little coverage?? 🤔 Disabled children are much more likely to experience abuse, and my experience suggests that investigations are much less likely to occur when children have communication or learning difficulties, even when there appears to be clear evidence of harm. It seems so unfair and unjust. I definitely suggest listening to the File on 4 episode about this. As I reflect, I also think it’s critical that we don’t look at this horrendous case and think “it’s so bad, there’s no way it could happen in my setting”. I’ve seen how easily unsafe cultures can develop. They don’t develop overnight so when you’re in one you don’t always notice it. These are some key ingredients that cause them to grow, and these can creep in quite quietly: ❌ boundaries being eroded ❌values and purpose forgotten ❌poor staff behaviour normalised ❌staff and leaders justifying how children are treated by blaming the children/their conditions/‘the system’ ❌increased staff turnover ❌staff not given the support and resources they need creating burn out/stress/resentment/poor and inconsistent practice ❌poor communication, info sharing and collaboration with parents and partners ❌absent and silent leaders We must do better.

I had to revise this specialty presentation on Gang Grooming. I like the new look and updated content. A lot of content is specific to Bermuda, but I can reach any community. " Deglaroizing Gangs -Gang Grooming" In today's society, young people must be aware of the dangers and consequences of gang grooming, criminal convictions, and juvenile violence. My upcoming presentation aims to educate and inform students about these pressing issues, empowering them to make informed decisions and avoid involvement in illegal activities. By understanding the manipulation tactics of gang grooming, the long-term impacts of criminal records, and the cycle of juvenile violence, we can guide our youth towards positive and constructive paths. Join me in this critical conversation to create a safer and brighter future for all.

School discipline is crucial, but here’s when it becomes a legal matter: 🚫 Excessive Punishment ⚖️ Violation of Students’ Rights 🛡️ Bullying and Harassment 📋 More! Facing these challenges? Visit https://lnkd.in/gH73Mc_X to discover how we can help.

Combating Domestic Violence: A Call for Compassion and Change Domestic violence is not just a private issue; it affects individuals, families, and communities in deeply personal ways. Each story of abuse has a ripple effect, impacting not only the victim but also children, friends, and loved ones who may witness or experience its emotional toll. To combat domestic violence, we need both compassion and concrete action. This means creating safe spaces for survivors to speak up and seek help without fear or shame. We must build strong support systems, from friends and family to professional counseling and legal assistance, to help survivors find safety and rebuild their lives. Education is equally important. By raising awareness and teaching young people about respect and healthy relationships, we can break cycles of abuse and foster a culture of empathy. Together, through understanding, support, and action, we can create a future where every individual feels safe and valued in their own home. #ceaforgng