Here are 10 tips to be a disability ally.
1. Know that not all disabilities are apparent.
Many disabled folks say that people don't believe them when they share their disabilities. Please be respectful, listen, and believe.
2. Know that there are many disabilities.
Yes, there are more disabilities than deaf, blind, deafblind, mobility, speech, autism, and intellectual development.
3. Understand that disabilities are a spectrum.
When you meet one deaf person, then you've met one deaf person not all of us. One person can't represent their entire disability category.
4. Ask before helping.
Many want to be helpful to everyone, not just disabled people. I know people mean well when they jump in and try to help someone.
Imagine a stranger coming up to you, putting their hands on your jacket, and invading your space. This is uncomfortable. Respect people's space.
5. Provide access and accommodations.
Are you hosting an event? List the accommodations you will provide. Be sure to ask for access requirements and accommodations in case you don't have them covered.
6. Avoid assumptions.
Disability allies think they're making it easier on the person by taking care of their accommodations. However, assumptions are often wrong. When you provide the wrong accommodation, you deprive the person of the correct one.
7. Avoid giving advice unless asked.
The disabled person most likely has already heard it all.
8. Be careful with "You're so inspiring."
Someone cracked me up. She said I was inspiring, but not in the inspiration pron way. Don't know what it is and why it's a problem? Watch Stella Young's TED Talk "I'm not your inspiration, thank you very much."
9. Talk to the disabled person like you would anyone else.
Some waiters would ask the disabled person's companion for the disabled person's order. They don't ask the disabled person. I caught a video with an interviewer, customer, and interpreter. The interviewer turned to the interpreter, "Ask him ... " I cringed hard.
There are exceptions. To listen to a signer, I need to read the interpreter's lips. To make up for eye contact, I look at the signer when I'm talking.
10. Support accessibility.
If you notice accessibility is lacking, help make change. If you notice someone with a disability is being excluded, take action. If you notice videos without captions, educate the creator. If you notice a problem with an accessible restroom, report it.
Support disability and accessibility nonprofits. Support related lobbying efforts, legislation, and petitions.
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