One of the most common negotiation scenarios that sales reps face with their managers is asking for feedback. Feedback is essential for your growth and performance, but it can also be challenging to receive and give. How do you ask for feedback without sounding needy, defensive, or arrogant? How do you respond to feedback without getting emotional, argumentative, or dismissive? How do you use feedback to improve your results and relationship with your manager?
A good way to practice this scenario is to role-play with a peer or a coach. You can take turns playing the role of the sales rep and the manager, and use a real or hypothetical situation where you need feedback. For example, you can ask for feedback on a recent sales call, a proposal, or a goal. You can also use a feedback model, such as the SBI (Situation, Behavior, Impact) or the STAR (Situation, Task, Action, Result) to structure your conversation. The goal is to exchange feedback that is specific, constructive, and actionable, and to show appreciation, curiosity, and openness.